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New to BDSM and ready to start exploring?
You are not alone! MOST people have kinky terrain in the erotic imaginations! Humans are endlessly creative and inventive erotic creatures, and most of us crave the intensity and thrills that BDSM can offer, at least some of the time!
BDSM is a vast world of erotic possibility to explore – and being new to BDSM can be overwhelming!
In this podcast episode we offer a framework we call Erotic Game Play to help you think through creating the erotic experiences you most crave. We talk through the Rules, Roles and Goals that will help you create satisfying experiences together.
More About Exploring BDSM
Many couples who are new to BDSM make the mistake of rushing in and trying a lot of new things at once, often ending up in overwhelm, miscommunication, hurt feelings, resentment or even physical injury.
Yet exploring elements of BDSM offers many benefits to relationships, and if you know how to explore safely, even those new to BDSM can have intense, highly erotic experiences.
If you are new to BDSM, give yourself the time and space to explore slowly. Have lots of conversations before you try new things to help you get specific about what you want to explore.
Our online courses allow us to guide you step-by-step in your erotic explorations, at your own pace from the privacy of your own home. If you are new to BDSM and want to start exploring with us, check out these offerings: