Where would one go to find “Christian Grey” like guys? Fancy Restaurants? Coffee shops? Downtown? I guess what I mean, is where do you look or find rich handsome guys? – Maribel
Hey there,
I wish of course I could match make you with the man of your dreams, but that is beyond the scope of my skills.
I would emphasize, however, that there may be more important qualities than wealth – this emphasis in the book troubles us as sex educators. The worst lovers we have met have been the wealthiest – often way more obsessed with their bottom line instead of their lover’s bottom.
It is also essential for a woman’s health and safety to have financial independence. So income of your partner should be closer to yours than not, in order to not endanger yourself. This is a complicated issue but trust your instinct on it.
Go deeper into Christian’s character and ask yourself what you are really craving. Then deliberately start calling that into your life, seeking that quality out in the men you meet.
All my best, thanks for being in touch.
May you meet guys that fulfill you in all the right ways,
Chris
PleasureMechanics.com
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