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Electrify your erotic life by exploring sensation play, intentionally intensifying sensations that you already enjoy and boldly exploring new ranges of sensations. From soft and silky to rough and scratchy, there is a huge range of sensations to explore and experiment with. In this free podcast episode we guide you in getting specific about the kinds of sensation you enjoy most and simple strategies to begin intensifying sensation play and welcoming more sensation, pleasure and thrill into your sex life.
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There are so many delightful ways to intensify sensation and go bigger and bolder than you would in your regular sex life. This can include edging up to the exquisite boundary between pleasure and pain, testing your limits and transcending every day states of awareness.
You can create more intense sensations with your hands alone, or use an endless variety of toys and tools to help you create sensations. You can also play with sensory deprivation, cutting off one or more of the senses to intensify the others.
Most great sex includes lots of physical sensation. Your lover’s touch, the scent of their skin, the visual feast of seeing one another’s naked flesh, the auditory delights of hearing one another moan in pleasure. Sensations come from all of your senses, and are then interpreted in your brain. The experience of “pleasure” is subjective and highly dependent on the context. If your lover slaps your face during an argument, it is abusive. If you are highly aroused and are begging for it, being slapped can feel electrifying. It is also important to know that arousal changes your pain threshold. Remember that every sensation you deliver will be experienced through the lens of that particular moment. Arousal level, emotional mood, temperature of the room and personal history all changes how each sensation is felt.
As you intensify sensations, also amp up your presence, communication and focus so you can take your lover to new places while maintaining safety, consent and connection.
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