Your hands are sensitive, dexterous and capable of giving your man intense pleasure and powerful climaxes.
With a little skill and confidence, you can fully satisfy your man and leave him feeling saturated with pleasure. Many women enjoy having the option of fully satisfying their lover without being penetrated.
Let’s face it, sometimes the idea of intercourse or oral sex is just a little too much. But you may be turned-on enough to kiss, cuddle and give your man a fabulous orgasm with your hands!
Today’s challenge is to add this skill to your sexual repertoire, and then notice the benefits of bringing manual stimulation back into your bedroom. We’re going to help you out by showing you that touching a man goes way beyond the “one stroke wonder” kind of touch you might have used back in the day.
Once you give yourself permission to explore new ways of touching him, begin noticing his reactions. Pay exquisite attention to his responses. How does he respond when you touch ever so lightly around the head of his penis? Do faster or slower strokes peak his interest? Can you tell when he is really into it? What happens to his breathing? Does he make sounds to let you know when it feels good? By paying attention you’ll gain valuable information about your lover’s patterns of arousal and in no time you’ll be proficient in giving him pleasure.
Using your hands is also the best way to explore prolonging his arousal and delaying ejaculation. Your hands can quickly respond to feedback, allowing you to back off on stimulation before he reaches the point of “no return” and climaxes. After you gain confidence using your hands to pleasure him, begin playing with prolonging his pleasure. Work together to notice and communicate as he gets closer to ejaculation, and play with backing off and building up as many times as you can before he simply can’t wait any longer and wants to experience his climax.
With a little skill and a lot of confidence, using your hands to pleasure your man can add a whole new dimension to your sex life. Many women find this to be an exciting and sexy addition, as they take control and are able to pleasure their man in a whole new way. All too often we forget about our hands as the amazing erotic tools they are designed to be – we are built to give and receive pleasure and touch is our primary way of communicating with our lover. We invite you to explore the pleasurable potential of making love to your man – with just your hands!