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Tantra

Tantra sex, tantric sexuality and neo-tantra have very little in common with the Sanskrit traditions from which the language and some of the philosophy is derived.

Tantra as it is understood to most Westerners today is a sexual lifestyle defined by a spiritual understanding of erotic energy, the desire for profound emotional intimacy with sex partners, and the creation of rituals around lovemaking.

The Pleasure Mechanics is not a tantric sex site. We have studied Tantra as one source of sexual wisdom and practices, just as we have studied various forms of massage and many other sexual traditions from around the world.

We believe that some of the practices that Tantra sex is best known for – things like eye gazing,  the yab yum position and yoni massage – are easily translatable to any kind of lifestyle and belief system. We choose to focus on the physical skills and allow you to find your way to seeing the divine in the eyes of your beloved!

If you want to explore more about Tantra sex, start with the “Queen of Tantra” Caroline Muir.

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50 Shades of Sexy

Like millions of women worldwide, we loved the story of seduction between Christian and Anastasia. We read E.L. James’ 50 Shades of Grey with an eye for what we can all learn about sex from the steamy pages. Here is a round-up of the Top 50 Things to Learn About Sex from 50 Shades of Grey. We are also covering each topic below in greater depth in a YouTube video.

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Erotic Breast Touch

Question::

I’ve been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and I enjoy our sex life lots. We have a laugh and enjoy ourselves but sometimes he will start to play with my breasts and I’ll push him away and not like it, it’s not that I dislike him playing and I know he’s turned on when he does and it will turn me on too but I sometimes get a fright when he starts doing it randomly and it makes me a little uncomfortable and now he has stopped playing with them altogether recently and so I’m wondering what to do.  Please help x Nikki

Answer:: 

Hey Nikki,

Thanks for being in touch. Tell me more about what you mean by “sometimes get a fright when he starts doing it randomly”
Many women have complex feelings about breast touch – not only because it feels different according to time of the month and how aroused you are, but also because they have been touched so poorly so many times in our life. It often feels like our lovers are touching our breasts for _their_ pleasure rather than to pleasure us! So know that you are not alone.
Often, men go straight for the nipple, which can also be uncomfortable. And once there, they just pinch it!
These are all the reasons we made our video guide on Breast Massage – so lovers can learn a wide range of ways to touch the breasts, warm up before touching the nipple, and stimulate the nipples with more creativity. Perhaps you want to grab a copy and watch it together as a way of having a conversation about how you want your breasts to be touched in the future!
Cheers,
Chris