Pleasure Mechanics

Sexological Bodywork With The Pleasure Mechanics Interview

In this rich conversation with sex therapist Nicoletta Heidegger, host of Sluts and Scholars podcast, we share about the core of all we do here at Pleasure Mechanics : creating resources so you can explore and optimize your own embodied pleasure, sexuality and intimate relationships. We talk about the roots of our work in Sexological Bodywork, how Chris came to pioneer this field and how Chris and Charlotte met through their shared devotion to pleasure, touch and loving care.

Thanks to Sluts and Scholars for hosting this conversation!

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The Masturbatory Assist

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The Masturbatory Assist is a game changing strategy that unlocks way more pleasure, intimacy and shared joy in relationships. In this free podcast episode we explore how you can use the Masturbatory Assist to create more closeness in long term relationships, long distance relationships, and relationships with “mismatched libidos” or when one partner is not available for partnered play.

When one partner is horny and the other is not, the Masturbatory Assist creates an option beyond rejection or sex out of obligation, by inviting the lower-interest or lower-energy partner to add some spark to the fire. From enthusiastic permission giving to full body massage, from dirty talk to romantic eye contact, there are countless ways to adopt the attitude of The Masturbatory Assist and discover what more is possible when one of you chooses to lend a helping hand.

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The Masturbatory Assist is, to the best of our knowledge, a term coined by Dan Savage, long time columnist of SavageLove and host of the Savage LoveCast. We are grateful for his pioneering the field of sex advice journalism.

Expanding Erotic Horizons

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If you are bored with sex, stuck in a rut or ready to explore beyond traditional sex scripts, this episode is for you. We explore how to start expanding your erotic horizons, explore your desires, initiate vulnerable conversations and grant yourself permission to try new things, in and out of the bedroom.

Be sure to explore the resources here in the show notes to start exploring in your own life – put our principles into practice and discover what is possible for you, right now.

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Curate Your Erotic Expression

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This podcast episode is an invitation into the lifelong process of curating your erotic expression and exploring your creativity. In this episode we look at erotic expression specifically through the lens of the toys, tools, accessories and costumes we bring into our erotic realms. This includes everything from lingerie and clothing to toys and kink tools, to how we decorate our bedroom and adorn our bodies.

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Getting Off Script

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Getting off script means confronting the social scripts, expectations and norms that have shaped who we understand ourselves to be, in and out of the bedroom. Getting off script requires us to examine our social identities, both assigned and chosen, and determine where we have more agency to express more of who we are and want to be.

In this episode we tackle this complex yet necessary task of getting off script and getting more real with who we are as specific humans and erotic beings. Getting off script allows us to be more unique and powerful in our specific gifts, while attracting community and love around our most authentic selves.

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