We are the creators of the world’s only complete course on prostate massage: Prostate Massage Mastery. So we were thrilled to hear about the release of a new book about prostate pleasure, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure.
We were delighted to interview co-author Aislinn Emirzian about the book and their findings- check out those videos below!
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The balls, or testicles, are one of the most ignored parts of the male sexual system. A lot of women don’t know how to touch the balls to give him pleasure. The balls seem delicate and fragile. In reality, most men’s balls are very sensitive to touch and can be a source of erotic pleasure. Learn how to touch his balls to add more pleasure to your handjobs and prostate massage.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 1) Focus on the scrotum, not the balls. The scrotum is the tissue surrounding the balls. The skin is quite sensitive and can handle deep pressure. The balls themselves are more delicate and should be handled with care!
How To Touch Balls Strategy 2) As you’re kissing, gently hold his testicles in your hand. Simply hold still and allow him to feel the warmth of your hand.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 3) Trace circles at the crease at the base of the penis where the shaft meets the scrotum.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 4) Explore very light pinching on the skin of the scrotum. Roll the skin in between your fingers very gently and watch how he reacts.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 5) Wrap your fingers around the scrotum and massage them lightly between your thumb and index finger. Gently pull the testicles down and away from his body so you’re holding them in a tight sack of skin. This exposes more nerve endings and increases sensitivity. Now stroke the taut skin and see how it feels.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 6) Wrap both hands around his penis with a firm grip. Now glide one hand up and over the head and the other hand down and across the balls. This move will make the penis feel large and expand the sensation. Use lube or massage oil to create a nice smooth glide.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 7) Straddle his chest, facing his pelvis. Reach down all the way to his perineum, then drag your hands, hand over hand, over the scrotum and penis, and up onto his stomach.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 8) Very lightly run your fingernails over the skin of the scrotum. Notice how he responds. Some guys love this scratching sensation and will get almost giddy with pleasure. Other guys get nervous. See if he enjoys it and respond accordingly.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 9) Pull the scrotum into your mouth. First, just hold still. Then move your tongue around, exploring the contours of the scrotal skin. Find the seam that runs down the middle of his testicles and lick it.
How To Touch Balls Strategy 10) As you touch his scrotum with one hand, place the flat of your knuckles on your other hand against his perineum (the area between his testicles and anus), and vibrate it. Shake your fist, pulse in and out. We cover a lot more techniques for stimulating the perineum on both our Handjob and Prostate Massage video guides.
Have fun learning how to touch his balls with more creativity and confidence. Master the art of stimulating his entire sexual system with our stroke-by-stroke guides on handjobs (part of our Foreplay Mastery Online Course) and prostate massage to be the best lover he’s ever had!
Question::
Hi. I’m thinking of ordering your hand job video. Question though. Can a hand job be just as pleasurable and sexy as a blowjob? I want to get a handjob cause I don’t want to risk std/sti from blowjobs.
Thanks!
Jason
Answer::
Hey Jason!
Let’s face it: life is busy, our to-do lists are long and at the end of the day it can feel exhausting to think about getting intimate.
But if you wait until you are in the mood, you might be caught waiting for far longer than you want.
What if instead you sought out a pleasure you are ready to say yes to, and then the next?
This is the essential difference between Spontaneous Desire and Responsive Desire.
So here is a simple choice that can do wonders for your overall pleasure, joy and intimate connection: find a pleasure to say yes to, and let that be the spark in a responsive desire cycle. Let one pleasure lead to the next, as it feels good and right in the moment. This isn’t about faking anything – in fact it’s about finding your most authentic yes.
If exploring responsive desire with a lover, meet wherever you both can show up fully. Go for a walk or sit on the couch and talk. Play a game or workout together. Ask to cuddle. Choose to get naked, get in bed and simply explore full body touch.
Don’t put pressure on the situation, don’t have an agenda to go all the way. Just connect. Laugh. Touch. Then notice how you feel.
Most of the time, your body will start warming up and feeling really good, your mind will relax and you’ll say things like “Why don’t we do this EVERY night?”
This “get naked and touch” advice is even more important for those of us who don’t often experience the lightning bolt feeling of horniness or spontaneous desire. Some people are simply more likely to feel aroused and ready for intimacy once they are already in an erotic situation (naked and touching their lover!) rather than spontaneously as they are washing up after dinner.
Once you are naked and in bed, focus on full body touch, using all of the strokes you have learned from the couples massage videos. Then, if you find yourself aroused, you can move on to erotic touch or other kinds of orgasmic stimulation. But remember that even a few moments of full body touch is enough to trigger your brain’s pleasure response, create head-to-toe relaxation and release all the health benefits of touch. Make a few minutes of full body touch part of your daily routine and you’ll notice tremendous benefits for your health and your relationship.
So don’t wait to be in the mood for intimacy. Choose to get naked and start touching and see what happens!
The scrotum is a part of the male sexual system. It is the home of the testicles, otherwise known as the “balls” on male mammals.
Many men appreciate skilled touch on the scrotum as part of foreplay. Check out our advice on How To Stimulate The Scrotum