Pleasure Mechanics

Priapism

Priapism is a medical condition, in which the erect penis or clitoris does not return to its flaccid state, despite the absence of both physical and psychological stimulation, within four hours. Priapism is considered a medical emergency, which should receive medical treatment Early treatment can be crucial for a full recovery with full sexual function.

How long is too long to be hard? The duration of a normal erection before it is classifiable as priapism is still controversial. Ongoing penile erections for more than 6 hours can be classified as priapism.

Priaprism should not be confused with prolonged erections and sustained arousal attained through sexual techniques such as ejaculation control. Erections naturally have some ebb and flow, the hardness changing over the course of arousal, especially if arousal is maintained for hours.

The name comes from the Greek god Priapus, a fertility god often represented with a disproportionately large and permanent erection.

Pleasure

Most simply, pleasure is the experience of being pleased, gratified, rewarded. Pleasure most typically references a sensual experience of some sort – an experience of our physical bodies that we find good, satisfying or arousing.

Pleasure also connotes desire of some sort – we desire that which pleases us – good food, erotic touch, beautiful music. The relationship between desire and pleasure in most people is a cycle – we experience pleasure from something particular, and in turn begin to crave more. If you have never tasted fine wines, it is hard to desire it. We all have a unique constellation of known pleasures- developed tastes and desires that bring us joy, satisfaction and fulfillment. From our favorite music and food to a specific kind of erotic touch, many of us have desires for specific sensual delights.

To keep life interesting and relationships exciting, we can also begin to explore new kinds of pleasure – and may discover that we are capable of experiencing way more pleasure than we knew possible.

Orgasm

Orgasms get a LOT of attention in the world of sexuality and there are a ton of myths and misunderstandings about orgasms that prevent us from fully experiencing pleasure, connection and climax.

Orgasm is a specific event in the body: a release of accumulated sexual arousal, marked by involuntary contractions of the pelvic muscles and a hormonal cascade from excitement to enjoyment.

Orgasm is a brain event, not a genital event. This is essential for understanding that orgasm can be experienced from ANY kind of stimulation that produces arousal.

All bodies can experience one or more orgasms in any given sexual event, with or without ejaculation. Most people experience a building of sexual excitement towards a threshold, and a “point of inevitability” at which orgasm is imminent.

Orgasms can range from mild to wild, quick to long lasting, serene to bestial.

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Speaking Of Sex Episodes About Orgasm

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Fisting

Fisting is the sexual practice of penetrating the vagina or anus with the entire hand.

The fist is never inserted all at once. Penetration begins with just one or two fingers, and additional fingers are introduced one at a time as arousal builds. Most people only like to be fisted while highly aroused. Fisting enthusiasts enjoy the sensation of fullness, expansion and pressure.

Everyone’s body is differently proportioned, so some people are able to enjoy these sensations with much less penetration. Other people enjoy two fists at once, no problem. Only you can discover what kind of penetration your specific body will enjoy. Start small and work your way up!

Many worry that large penetration will stretch out their orifice. This is a myth – with proper technique, the slow stretch of the muscles and flesh to accommodate large penetration can assist with relaxing tension and strengthening the pelvic muscles. Penetration of any kind feels best when approached without an agenda, focused on the pleasure of the body being penetrated.

Fisting is an advanced skill that can create very intense erotic sensations. Master the fundamental erotic skills of fingering first to insure you experience maximum pleasure as you explore the art of fisting.

Listen to our free podcast episode on How To Fist by clicking here. 

Couples Massage

Are you ready to experience the pleasures and benefits of couples massage? Join our Couples Massage Mastery Online Course and you are minutes away from relaxing into deep, satisfying massage right in the comfort of your own home.

Couples Massage shouldn’t be a luxury experience in a spa – instead, couples massage can be the foundation of every sexual relationship.

We believe every couple can learn to share massage in the comfort of their own home – exchanging relaxing, satisfying touch any time they wish. Our Couples Massage Mastery course is designed to teach you how to share massage in the comfort of your own home, no special equipment needed.

Imagine the luxury of receiving skilled, confident touch from your lover. In just a few minutes, you can learn the secrets of professional massage therapists so you can exchange high quality touch, relax chronic constriction and create the full body relaxation that only massage can create!

If you want to learn just one skill to bring way more pleasure into your life, start with couples massage!

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