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Here’s your free ebook: T is For Threesome
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Considering having a threesome? Read our guide first! By popular demand, we put together all of our best advice into an ebook which we called How To Have A Threesome. We self-published this resource in 2014 and sold thousands of copies on Amazon and to our own community.
This book is now available as just one of our many gifts to you when you support our work with a small monthly donation by joining The Pleasure Pod.
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Do you fantasize about threesome sex?
You are not alone! Threesomes are by far the most common fantasy for both men and women.
Having a threesome can be an incredibly hot, fulfilling sexual adventure. On the other hand, a threesome can quickly ruin your relationship, causing drama, regret and resent.
By popular demand, here is the ultimate guide to having successful threesomes.
First, you’ll discover how to figure out if having a threesome is right for you and your relationship – or if it should be left as a fantasy alone!
Then, if you choose to go ahead with a threesome, you’ll gain valuable tools so you can have an amazing, hot and fulfilling threesome – while strengthening your primary relationship in the process!
This book also features interactive tools you and your lover can use to have a more successful threesome experience! Take the quiz to find out if you are ready for a threesome, or if a threesome poses risks to your relationship. Then use the list of Essential Conversation Starters to have intimate, honest conversations with your lover before you take the plunge into a threesome together.
Discover everything you need to know to have a successful threesome:
* How to overcome jealousy so it doesn’t get in the way
* Find the perfect person to have a threesome with
* The top 5 reasons NOT to have a threesome
* Fun, sexy ways to experiment with threesome sex – without going all the way all at once!
* Tips to keep your threesome safe – physically and emotionally
* How to triangulate your erotic energy so everyone feels included
* The best way to communicate before, during and after your threesome
Don’t even THINK of having a threesome without reading this book! Now available exclusively to members of The Pleasure Pod – support our work with a small monthly donation and unlock this and all of our best resources for your erotic journey!
T is For Threesome is an erotic short story by Chris Maxwell Rose, and is included for free as part of our resource on erotic communication: Know & Tell
Cunnilingus, the fancy name for oral sex on a woman, is one of the most exquisite and intimate of all sex acts. It is also one of the most challenging for many couples to enjoy. Discover proven strategies to enjoy sensational oral sex with The Pleasure Mechanics Guide to Cunnilingus, part of the Foreplay Mastery Online Course.
Designed to be read by both giver and receivers of cunnilingus, this book covers not only the physical techniques of amazing oral sex, but also the emotional issues that arise around this highly intimate act.
There are a lot of books out there that cover a few basic techniques for giving oral sex. But let’s face it: no fancy tongue stroke will bring her pleasure if she is unable to receive the pleasure you are offering. Many women struggle with common roadblocks that prevent them from relaxing and receiving the pleasures of oral sex. The skill of receiving oral pleasure is as important as the skills of giving – and this book covers both in thorough detail, offering effective strategies and proven techniques for maximum pleasure. One by one, we confront the most common issues that stand in the way of enjoying oral sex, and offer specific strategies to overcome them and get on your way to learning how to love receiving oral pleasure.
From extended warm-up strategies to techniques to ride the waves of multiple orgasms, we cover the art of cunnilingus with clear, practical techniques that you’ll be able to use right away. You’ll learn how to read your lover’s body cues and communicate both verbally and non-verbally to optimize your experience of oral stimulation. We skip the gimmicks and silly suggestions (who is actually going to write the alphabet with their tongue on their lover’s clitoris?) and go straight to highly effective techniques that work with the anatomy of the female sexual system to create maximum arousal.
Beyond the lick-by-lick guide to oral pleasure, you’ll learn how to integrate one or both hands to double (or triple!) her pleasure as you stimulate her clitoris with your mouth, and how to amp up the pleasure with a variety of sex toys. We also cover ten unique tongue exercises to develop endurance and precision, so you can offer her as much intense, focused stimulation as she desires.
Oral sex can be an incredibly pleasurable part of your sex life – as a treat in and of itself and as a fabulous way to bring up the heat before intercourse. Gain the mastery you need to enjoy sensational oral sex, and savor a lifetime of pleasure.
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New to BDSM and ready to start exploring?
You are not alone! MOST people have kinky terrain in the erotic imaginations! Humans are endlessly creative and inventive erotic creatures, and most of us crave the intensity and thrills that BDSM can offer, at least some of the time!
BDSM is a vast world of erotic possibility to explore – and being new to BDSM can be overwhelming!
In this podcast episode we offer a framework we call Erotic Game Play to help you think through creating the erotic experiences you most crave. We talk through the Rules, Roles and Goals that will help you create satisfying experiences together.
Many couples who are new to BDSM make the mistake of rushing in and trying a lot of new things at once, often ending up in overwhelm, miscommunication, hurt feelings, resentment or even physical injury.
Yet exploring elements of BDSM offers many benefits to relationships, and if you know how to explore safely, even those new to BDSM can have intense, highly erotic experiences.
If you are new to BDSM, give yourself the time and space to explore slowly. Have lots of conversations before you try new things to help you get specific about what you want to explore.
Our online courses allow us to guide you step-by-step in your erotic explorations, at your own pace from the privacy of your own home. If you are new to BDSM and want to start exploring with us, check out these offerings: