Pleasure Mechanics

Sensitive, But Not Delicate

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Our bodies are sensitive, but not delicate. This phrase is something Chris has been teaching for twenty years, since the early days of the Sexological Bodywork training, in response to a pattern they noticed after teaching erotic touch for hundreds of hours. Many people are hesitant when it comes to erotic touch, approaching the genitals as if they are delicate and easily hurt. The truth is, even our most sensitive bits are quite resilient and many people crave much deeper, more intense touch than they are getting from hesitant lovers.

If we can remember the body is “sensitive, but not delicate” we can be both intense and gentle at the same time, and create much more fulfilling and satisfying erotic encounters.

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Love Every Day with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

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Dr. Alexandra Solomon joins us to explore the power of daily incremental practice in the realms of love, connection and pleasure. In this free podcast episode we explore how we can all practice Love Every Day, while being patient with change, working with even the most reluctant of partners, and respecting the process of incremental growth. Join us for a compassionate and uplifting conversation about the power of practicing pleasure, joy & connection.

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More About Alexandra H. Solomon, PhD

Over the last two decades, Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon has become one of today’s most trusted voices in the world of relationships, and her work on Relational Self-Awareness has reached millions of people around the world. Dr. Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University, and she is on faculty in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University where she teaches the internationally renowned course, Building Loving and Lasting Relationships: Marriage 101. In addition to writing articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family, she is the author of three books, including her most recent daily devotional Love Every Day.

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Making Good Vibrations

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Here’s how to create more sensation and arousal with the pleasure of vibrations! In this podcast episode, we explore how you can create exquisite sensations of vibrations for yourself or a lover, and enjoy the wide range of feeling that vibrations can evoke for us – using just your hands and mouth! We also explore using vibrators and other tools to enjoy pleasurable, focused vibrations.

Vibration is just one quality of artful erotic touch. Explore the whole range with us and become a master of erotic touch with our online courses.

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The Erotics of Fear

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Why do we humans enjoy being afraid? Why does it feel so good to be just the right kind of scared?

This spook season, we explore the erotics of fear – what it means to want to be afraid, how we all have different appetites and preferences for fear, and how we can choose to play with fear on purpose, creating thrilling and invigorating erotic expereinces for one another.

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Relaxed Receiving

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Relaxing into pleasurable touch is one of the most nourishing erotic experiences – but how do we stay relaxed while also being present with our partner, communicating our needs and expressing our pleasure to create a positive feedback loop that you’ll both enjoy?

This episode was inspired by a recent personal coaching session. If you are interested in a 1-1 deep dive with us, check out our Private Coaching sessions here!

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Episode Summary:

In this episode of “Speaking of Sex With the Pleasure Mechanics,” we discuss the concept of relaxed receiving during massage, erotic touch or other kinds of shared intimacy. We emphasize the importance of active and engaged receiving, even during moments of quiet enjoyment. We provide strategies for both givers and receivers to enhance communication and connection while learning how to communicate non-verbally through touch and presence. We also touch on the power of erotic relaxation and the benefits of building our capacity to move between relaxed and aroused states during our intimate encounters.

Join us as we explore the balance between active and passive receiving during our intimate moments and unlock the potential for deep connection and pleasure in both states.