You Are Kinky — Pleasure Mechanics

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Are you bored in bed?

Stuck in a routine?

Longing for the days of thrilling sex and passionate connection?

If so, you are not alone. Most of the emails we receive tell the same story: boredom, ruts and long lost libidos.

Here’s the truth: there is a proven path to more pleasure, and it is available to you right now.

That path? Kink. And whether or not you already know it, you are kinky.

Not everyone is into handcuffs and pain in bed. Not everyone wants to be tied up and spanked. But everyone has a little bit of kink inside their erotic soul, just waiting to come out.

Our new course, Kinky Sex Mastery, is your guided tour into the adventure of kinky sex. We guide you every step of the way so you can explore the thrills of kink while staying safe and strengthening your relationship.

But what does it mean to be kinky?

Here’s how we define Kinky Sex:

Kink is everything beyond the standard script of romantic intercourse driven sex
Kink includes intense sensation play, roleplaying and erotic power play.
Kink is an attitude, a willingness to explore and have fun with sex outside the box
“The box” is what culture tells us is permissible, shame-free sex. This changes over time. Right now culture is a little confused about what is in and out as more people come out of the closet about enjoying a wide range of sex play.

We all have cravings, interests and turn-ons that don’t fit into our standard sexual script. But very few people take action and actively explore kinky sex.

After talking to hundreds of men and women about kinky sex, here are the top reasons people don’t explore kink:

want to explore but don’t know how to get started
don’t want to feel silly,
don’t want to hurt your lover,
don’t want to break trust and lose their partner’s respect
partner not interested
scared of losing control
scared “vanilla” sex will never be satisfying again

Here is the truth: human sexuality is wildly creative, diverse and surprising. We are capable of being aroused by just about anything, and using that arousal for pure orgasmic fun or profound emotional connection.

For centuries, we’ve been sold the lie that “good” and “normal” sexuality consists of just a few basic sex acts performed within a reproductive marriage. Finally, we are realizing that this limiting view is not only incorrect but damaging. Most of us are suffering in silence with desires we don’t understand and longings that remain unfulfilled.

Finally, kinky sex is being unleashed out of the shadows of shame. We are slowly giving ourselves permission to explore “out of the box” sexuality. But this leap isn’t easy. In fact, for many people, it is scary to confront their own desires and ask their partner to try something new.

That’s where we come in. When you are ready to take the first step towards a lifetime of kinky adventures, enroll in our Kinky Sex Mastery course. Then, we will guide you every step of the way as you build the skills you need to safely and securely play with the thrills of kink. Over the course of 25 date nights, we give you everything you need to discover your desires, communicate with your partner and start getting hands-on experience with kinky skills.

You’ll find that exploring kinky sex not only gives you access to a whole new world of arousal and erotic experiences, it will also strengthen your relationship. You’ll discover surprising new sides to one another, remember what it feels like to be excited again, and develop advanced communication skills that will serve you in and out of the bedroom.