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Is your solo sex life getting a little boring? Do you have kinky fantasies and no one to explore them with?
Here’s how to integrate kink in your solo play and enjoy the infinite pleasures of kinky masturbation.
Masturbation can include all of the major elements of kinky sex, including Sensation Play, Power Play and Role Play.
To explore sensation play as part of kinky masturbation, start with your hands. Explore the full range of sensations you can create on your entire body. Scratch yourself, pinch yourself, spank yourself, play with widest range of sensation possible. While it can feel hard to replicate the surprise and sensations of a partner’s touch, it can still be fun and you can start learning what types of sensations you most respond to. Then, you can bring toys into your solo play. Almost any toy designed for kinky play can be used in masturbation. Curious about nipple clamps? Put them on and then hold the chain in your mouth and tug on them as you masturbate!
Kinky masturbation is the ideal place to explore your kinkiest fantasies! In the safety of your own imagination you can push your fantasies in every direction and explore what you find arousing. To prime your fantasy pump, read kinky erotica and notice what turns you on. Remember that fantasy is not always the things you want to do in real life. Click here for more about fantasy vs. desire, a crucial concept to set your erotic imagination free!
Fantasize during solo sex and allow yourself to spin intricate stories involving kink and power play. Step into different power roles and see how you respond. If you want to explore submission, try out a range of archetypes and find out exactly what kind of power play inspires you. Are you a naughty, nasty rebel who needs a firm hand? Or a demure, humble servant aiming to please? Kinky masturbation can help you explore the galaxy of options and unlock new possibilities.
You can even try solo orgasm control! Build arousal and then stop and move on with your day. Then masturbate again, and stop just before orgasm. Repeat until you are begging yourself for permission to orgasm!
While exploring kinky masturbation, push your own edges while staying emotionally and physically safe. You will learn what your body is capable of as you explore – respect your own limits just like you would respect a partner’s boundaries during kinky sex. NEVER risk injuring yourself with things like erotic asphyxiation, or any skill you are not properly trained in.
Want to explore the exciting terrain of kinky sex? Click here for more on the erotic adventure of a lifetime!