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Figging and Botanical Sex:
Ever heard of figging? What about using aloe in the bedroom?
The plant kingdom offer us a wide range of sexy sensations if we approach the idea with a creative and open mind.
For thousands of years, plants and humans have had a sensual relationship. Think about the fragrance of roses seducing us on a warm spring day, or the electric colors of autumn leaves in the sunlight. But have you ever considered bringing plants into your bedroom as sensual tools?
Here are a few ideas to get you started. If you enjoy erotic botanical play, you’ll find endless possibilities to explore! We cover figging and botanical play in our online course Kinky Sex Mastery.
Figging:
The practice of figging dates back many centuries, and is found in the erotic history of many different cultures. There is some evidence that it was used in ancient Greece and the Roman Empire, both as a means of punishment and as an erotic practice. It is well documented as a form of domestic punishment in Victorian England.
Figging is inserting a piece of peeled ginger root in an orifice – most often the anus- to create a burning sensation. When the recipient clenches the anal sphincters, the ginger root releases oils that cause an intense burning sensation in the sensitive tissues of the rectum. Some people love the sensation and find it exquisitely pleasurable. Others experience the sensation as a form of erotic punishment and include it as part of erotic power exchange.
Start slowly when you are exploring figging. It is valuable to explore the sensation of rubbing the ginger root on the external anal sphincters before penetrating to see if you are interested in exploring this specific kind of sensation further. Then, try leaving the ginger root in place for short periods as you get acquainted with the sensations. When choosing a ginger root, look for a piece that has a flared base so the root is not pulled into the rectum. Peel just a small knob of the ginger and leave the rest intact. Throw away the ginger after play – don’t return it to the kitchen!
Aloe:
If your lover likes back scratches, try bringing aloe into your erotic play! Cut a stem of aloe off of the plant, and then use the sharp edges to scratch your lover’s back. Start gently and increase pressure until they are squirming with pleasure. Then, once their skin is hot and sensitive from all of the scratching, start slapping their skin with the broad, smooth side of the aloe. Soon, it will break open, spraying cooling aloe juice all over their skin. The combination of scratching, slapping and cooling moisture is delicious!
Rosemary & Lavender:
Many people use scented candle to set a romantic mood, but why rely on the fake scents when the real thing is within reach? When it is in season, gather a bouquet of lavender, rosemary and other beautifully scented plants. Then, drag them along your lover’s skin to release the pure oils of the plants. You’ll create nice tickling and scratching sensations while flooding your bedroom with incredible scent. You can also do some light flogging with them, which floods the room with even more scent.
Roses:
Surprise your lover with a special flogging session. Instead of reaching for a leather flogger, buy a dozen long stem roses. Use a vegetable peeler to remove the thorns, running your hands along each stem to make sure you haven’t missed any thorns. Put the roses in a vase by your bed, and the next time you make love, gather them up and run the flowers along your lover’s skin. Then, if you wish, proceed to flogging your lover’s back with the bouquet. Soon, rose petals will be showering down over your lover, creating a dramatic climax and an unforgettable erotic experience.
With a little creativity you can find endless varieties of plants to create fun sensations and bring more sensual pleasure into your erotic play. Pussy willow brushed up and down the skin is divine. Young branches of willow have been used as whips for centuries. Some people even love the sting of nettles incorporated into their intense sensation play!
Stay safe with botanical erotic play!
- Avoid plants that have been sprayed with pesticides (organic is better in the kitchen AND the bedroom!) Some people will have strong reactions to them, we’ve heard stories of people bathing in rose petals and then breaking out in rashes from the residual pesticides.
- Be on the lookout for allergic reactions – if any plant causes a rash, itchiness or any other reaction, don’t use it again!
- Use caution when using plants inside the vagina or anus. Cover cucumbers and other plants with condoms before inserting, as the waxy coatings and residuals sprays can cause reactions. Remember that anything inserted in the anus must have a flared base to prevent it getting pulled into the rectum!
- Avoid using sugary foods (like berries for example) around the vulva to prevent throwing of the pH balance of the vagina, which can lead to yeast infections.
- If you love botanicals, you may want to have sex outdoors. Click here to find out how to enjoy the erotic thrills of the great outdoors without being caught!
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